Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy buying gifts.
I think it’s a fun creative exercise of sorts, and a test of how well I know someone or what they’d like.
And I think I’m good at it — usually — or at least I’m told I give great gifts.
For example, I was supposed to go fishing a couple weeks ago with a friend of mine for his birthday. The trip didn’t work out, so I bought him fish of a different variety, the Swedish kind.
And I also have no problem buying a bottle of wine or something when I go over to someone’s new house or apartment, or spending extra if I find a gift I particularly like, even if I know it won’t be reciprocated.
Similarly, and please don’t get me wrong on this point especially, I am happy for all my friends’ marriages, births, and other special occasions. Continue reading →