I Have 1,000 Twitter Followers. How Did That Happen?

7 Feb

Last week, I reached what I consider to be an impressive milestone: the 1,000th person decided to follow me on Twitter.

Who’da thunk it when I first joined Twitter that I’d be so into it, that I’d stick with it this long, and that I’d ever reach this auspicious milestone. My followers did, and they kept flocking to me one after another.

Now I’ve tweeted more than 8,220 times and yes, I have more than 1,000 followers.

(BTW, if you don’t already follow me, I’m @martinlieberman.)

When Jeff Ginsberg clicked the Follow button on Wednesday, he did more than add to my list; he validated that I’m doing something right here. Continue reading

Not So Sunny Days

6 Feb

I’ll be honest … At least on the surface, as far as any of you can tell, life is going pretty well for me these days.

I have two new nephews, two weeks ago I got “stuck” and had to spend an extra day in Las Vegas thanks to a snow storm back east, and this past week it happened again, only this time I was in Key Biscayne, Florida.

As I keep telling people: Don’t hate the player, hate the game.

But I have to say, I wish everything was as glamorous and fun as it seems. Continue reading

Welcome to Fabulous Las Vegas

31 Jan

I was lucky enough to go to Las Vegas last week for MarketingSherpa’s Email Summit, held at Caesars Palace.

Good conference, good to see friends, to meet some folks I’ve been in touch with via Twitter IRL, and make new connections thanks to my tendency to over-tweet when I go to events like these (no kidding; I posted 118 tweets in three days, the most of anyone else at the conference).

Learned some, networked a bit, represented my employer well, and would call the trip a productive one.

Blah blah blah. This isn’t my work blog. I don’t need to defend why I was there. Continue reading

They’re Here!

30 Jan

Unless it’s, you know, a booty call or something, you never want the phone to ring after 12 a.m. Especially if you’ve been out, and you’re, well, not sober. Because when people call after midnight, it’s usually not for a good reason.

But sometimes the phone rings after midnight for a good reason. A very good reason. Continue reading

Fired Up

24 Jan

These past two years, I’ve never stopped saying how lucky I am. At the end of 2008, I voluntarily left my old job because I’d found a new one at a growing, successful company — one that’s kept on growing. While others lost their jobs or had their paychecks cut, my job remained stable and my salary actually increased. And while many people said 2009 was an awful year, I said the exact opposite. I don’t tell you all this to brag. I tell you because while watching the film The Company Men, I was reminded of just how lucky I am.

As opposed to other films that show the effects of the economy on working class Americans, The Company Men shows what happens to more affluent white-collar people when they lose their jobs. In the film, Ben Affleck plays Bobby, an arrogant young executive at Boston-based global shipping company GTX, who is laid off as a result of downsizing and has a hard time dealing with his changed life. The difficult economic climate also affects his boss, Gene (Tommy Lee Jones), the company’s original employee, and his colleague Phil (Chris Cooper), both of whom try to stop the layoffs and have a tough time adjusting when the axe falls on them too.

Of course, focusing on guys with big houses and fancy cars proves to be a reason why The Company Men isn’t the engaging film it could have been. After all, it’s really hard to have much sympathy for people like Bobby, who stubbornly keep their Porsches and their golf club memberships even though it’s now a struggle to pay the mortgage and college tuition. It takes until halfway into the film for Bobby to get over himself and not live in denial, and that’s why the second half of The Company Men is better than the first. Also, it’s tough to buy into the plot twist that Gene is having an affair with the head of human resources, when he disagrees so strongly with what she’s doing. (Then again, she’s played by Maria Bello, so I guess I do understand.)

But aside from those grievances, The Company Men is not a bad movie. For one thing, it’s marked by fine acting across the board. You do eventually feel sympathy for each one of the guys, and for the family members who are also affected — or at least you feel it for Bobby’s family. (It’s worth noting that Kevin Costner gives a nice, quiet performance as Bobby’s working class brother-in-law, who gives Bobby hope and purpose when no one else will.) Writer/director John Wells (ER) has created a film that illustrates the ridiculousness and emptiness of motivational outplacement counselors, shows the heartbreak that happens when a potential job opportunity doesn’t pan out, and gives voice to the frustration that results when people don’t just lose their job and paycheck, but their whole identity as well. In fact, The Company Men would make a decent double-feature companion for Up in the Air because it too makes an interesting statement about our current economic climate.

Of course, The Company Men won’t be considered a classic like Up in the Air was. But the performances make the film worth seeing, and who knows, maybe it’ll make you feel lucky too. I’m giving The Company Men a B.

You Always Hurt the Ones You Love

11 Jan

In the absolutely devastating film Blue Valentine, Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams play Dean and Cindy, a couple whose marriage is on the rocks (to put it mildly).

Over the course of the movie, we see in flashbacks how the couple met and fell in love — it’s this juxtaposition that pretty much defines the expression “the gamut of emotions.”

Blue Valentine is a love story gone wrong, and at its center are two excellent, award-worthy performances by Gosling and Williams. They help make this a very impressive film. Continue reading

You Just Know

3 Jan

How do you know when the movie you’re watching is not worth your time?

Here are the first 10 answers that come to mind: Continue reading

2010’s Entertainment Stays with Me

31 Dec

A couple nights ago, I re-watched the series finale of Lost for the first time in about four months.

I’m happy to report that I enjoyed it as much, if not more than, I did when the episode first aired in May, and the last time I watched it back when the DVD was first released in August — and that’s not just because I’m still blown away by how great Evangeline Lilly looked in that black dress.

That’s a relief, because when the finale aired, I was lamenting the end of one of my all-time favorite TV shows.

The last episode of Lost not only lived up to the hype, but it endures and continues to be great. Continue reading

2010 Was for the Birds

30 Dec

Never Speak of 2010I’m going to go out on a limb and say that it’s no coincidence that one of the biggest timewasters of the past year was the iPhone app Angry Birds.

That’s because as far as I’m concerned, 2010 was for the birds.

2009 was an awesome year for me, and this year was, well, not.

I started the year alone in my apartment on New Year’s Eve, and then it continued from there. There was disappointment, frustration, challenge, and laziness. Relationships didn’t pan out, I got too used to spending time on my own, I was let down a few too many times, and things I hoped to do I never was able to set my mind to.

Sure, things got better after the midway point, but especially after the year I had 12 months earlier, this year just kind of sucked. Continue reading

The Sad Version

29 Dec

Don’t go to see Rabbit Hole expecting a comedy. Nicole Kidman and Aaron Eckhart star as Becca and Howie, two parents still coming to terms with the death of their four-year-old son. Whereas he is fixated on the past and trying to deal with his emotions, she is letting go rather than dealing with the loss. Becca finds comfort in the high school student who was driving the car that killed her son, and Howie bonds with another member of a support group (Sandra Oh). As you may assume, the film is not big on laughs. Thankfully, it’s not a total tear-jerker, either, but it won’t be the lightest moviegoing experience you have. If you’ve seen Ordinary People or In the Bedroom then you know what to expect.

Rabbit Hole, which was adapted by David Lindsay-Abaire from his play and directed by John Cameron Mitchell, is an intimate, poignant look at grief, and the differing ways it plays out. Kidman, in the role that won Sex and the City‘s Cynthia Nixon a Tony award, is very good, as is Eckhart, but for me, it’s Dianne Wiest, as Becca’s mother, who gives the better performance. It’s hard to say I enjoyed this movie, and I thought there were some moments and scenes that didn’t work, but the whole thing ends nicely, and I walked out of the theater thinking positively about the movie. So I’m giving Rabbit Hole a B.